ahhh, thanks a mill, Diane!
that was my main source but i can't say i extracted every (S) and (R) from that section, mainly samplings from Massey
I will revise my post for those you have flagged
ok, Only Love Would Know (this is one of the reasons that I started this searching) was for one, played in Chicago, 1991...there's a few references to this at Wayne's site
it seems like a tedious effort over the past while but I can say doing it was a joy...clicking and reading setlists and reviews is one of my fave things...when you see a song pop up that you've never heard live or wonder what the arrangements might have been like, well, it give chills
also in the Tidbits Odds and Ends section (where did the wonderful FAQ section go?) something interesting:
"Lightfoot originally intended to title 'Only Love Would Know' differently. It was to be called 'Light Of Passion' but he said there was a song by that name making the rounds back then, so to avoid confusion he changed it."