Hey Pam,
I would think if someone said that you did too much talking then they must of wanted more singing and guitar playing
What's wrong with that?
I admire your courage and I hope you continue to have fun and do what you love.
Are you serious that the love of your life ditched you?
If so, I am really sorry that happened to you.
I am keeping you in my thoughts and I hope it all works out for the best