Hi eonara,
You sound like a fan that appreciated Ted's talent - not a stalker.
I contacted Bob Stewart via his web page on Ted Wesley but he didn't have any further information on his whereabouts or situation. Bob was happy to hear from fans and I got the impression that he may add fan comments to his page - if Ted were ever to stumble upon it. Ted just seems to have disappeared. For those who haven't heard Ted's music, check out the site. Another wonderful artist who sings about the land and it's people.
Yuri