Violet/Annie

[brink]

I hope the three of us will be able to get to Gord's next concert. You both were very supportive during my unemployment(Gwen Snyder too, but she appears to be gone now). Its great that all three of us ended up getting jobs about the same time.
Thanks for the good thoughts!
Brink(the employed!).

[violet Blue Horse]

You're welcome!

quote:Originally posted by brink:
I hope the three of us will be able to get to Gord's next concert. You both were very supportive during my unemployment(Gwen Snyder too, but she appears to be gone now). Its great that all three of us ended up getting jobs about the same time.
Thanks for the good thoughts!
Brink(the employed!).

[Auburn Annie]

Well, I haven't gotten it yet (should hear this coming week one way or another) but I still have my tickets for Massey from 2002 and will be there with bells on when it's rescheduled.

[morning glory]

And the good news is it's nearly spring...so, what a wunnerful way to celebrate spring, ladies. I am so proud of each of you!!!
What gals you are all.

[morning glory]

Annie even if the facts might not pan, you gave it your best! Time will give you your justice. Perseverance is a noble goal. And besides that the government is always so d*** slow.

[Auburn Annie]

Just an update - still no word on the librarian job at the Veterans Administration Medical Center. I talked with my contact at the site and she told me Human Resources was still looking at possible candidates. They HAD said only the top three were to be interviewed, so I don't know if one of the candidates changed his/her mind and bowed out, or they're hoping to find another couple of qualified folks to choose from. Grrr. At least I now know they'll notify us by mail, so I don't have to sit by the phone, just haunt the mail carrier. The federal government moves in mysterious (and slow) ways, its wonders to behold - eventually.

Meanwhile I'm putting in a repeat resume for another local computer company still hiring (Medical Content Developers), and going to a job fair on Monday for a new Bass Pro Shops opening in June. They expect about 2000 to show up for the 200-300 jobs. What the heck, I like those middlin' long shots.

[brink]

I have my fingers crossed for you Annie, I really am hoping you get the VA job.

[Auburn Annie]

Thanks, Brink, I've got my fingers, toes and eyes crossed <g> for SOMETHING to fall into place. It's been 18 long months, and while I have no trouble finding things to do with my time, I am not independently wealthy. I have classmates who have retired but they worked for Ma Bell right out of high school. On the plus side, I have a fully employed husband, a son who's half self-supporting and a daughter who's thrifty (gad, wonder where she learned that from?)

[TheWatchman]

Hope everything turns out as you want Annie. Sometimes it's tough to read employers and what they have planned. It is downright tough to land a good, career job these days. I hope you get the job.

[Auburn Annie]

Well! I went to our local mall yesterday, where they were having a job fair, with the idea of putting in an application for the Bass Pro Warehouse that is opening in mid-June. Didn't know for what position, just thought "new store, there ought to be SOMETHING I can do." YIPES! I have NEVER seen that many people in the mall at one time. They estimate there were over 1,000 waiting in line just for Bass (which is screening all week and expect 2-3K to apply for about 150-200 jobs.) The manager, Greg Bulkley, was grinning from ear to ear, running up and down the line encouraging those waiting, talking with reporters from all three local TV news stations, etc. I waited 2 hours for a 5 minute face-to-face with Shareen, one of 12 managers doing the pre-screening interviews. If they want you, you get a call back in about 3 weeks. She seemed to think I might make a good trainer for employees (health and safety, policies, etc.) Works for me. Anyway, I got some birthday gift shopping done while I was there, so it wasn't a total wash. We'll see. Still waiting on the VA but it's good to have other irons in the fire. Sad that there are that many folks looking for work (me included.)

[brink]

Hooray for you Annie! Training wouldn't be too bad. But I am still hoping for the VA!

[brink]

Any word yet Annie?
I took a job yesterday at PSA (an oxygen and home health company). I will be doing patient visits and concentrator checks. It pays $4.00 an hour more than where I am working now. I gave my notice and felt really bad since I have only been there 6 weeks. They were so nice, and I really like my job but $4.00 is a lot to pass up. My boss told me that if I decided I didn't like the new job to come back they would find a place for me if my position isn't still open. Sure made me feel good, since I couldn't find anything for months. So the new job starts on April 9th, I had applied with PSA in November. Long time coming and I hope it is worth the wait.

[violet Blue Horse]

Congratulations Brink! Four dollars is a fourtune. Heck, I jumped ship for two dollars more an hour and health benefits http://www.corfid.com/ubb/biggrin.gif

My new job is going well. Unfortunately I now work for a man who periodically breaks out into a big grin and says "Show business is my life" but that is so far his worst flaw. Well, unless you count working with the Raceway Mouse - long story.

quote:Originally posted by brink:
Any word yet Annie?
I took a job yesterday at PSA (an oxygen and home health company). I will be doing patient visits and concentrator checks. It pays $4.00 an hour more than where I am working now. I gave my notice and felt really bad since I have only been there 6 weeks. They were so nice, and I really like my job but $4.00 is a lot to pass up. My boss told me that if I decided I didn't like the new job to come back they would find a place for me if my position isn't still open. Sure made me feel good, since I couldn't find anything for months. So the new job starts on April 9th, I had applied with PSA in November. Long time coming and I hope it is worth the wait.

[Auburn Annie]

No word yet - I doubt I'll hear from Bass since they've held second interviews this past week and will be hiring 180 over the next few days (and I wasn't called in for a follow-up interview.) There are still 30-50 additional jobs to fill by mid-June but I'm not expecting to be one of them. Oh well, I have lots of company - there were 2600 applicants.

Still hanging fire on the VA job - it'll be 6 weeks this Wednesday since the interview but no news is good news, I guess. I've been haunting the mail carrier daily, but no envelope from the feds so far. Very frustrating.

[gwen snyder]

hi Aubrun Annie,
Anyword yet?

[Auburn Annie]

Nope, nada. The good news is I'm still in the running. My husband and I think they're waiting to hire someone closer to the new fiscal year which starts October 1st for the federal government.

Meanwhile another job, four blocks from my house, has opened up at the community college. It's the Technical Services Librarian position held by the now-Director of the library (she'd been acting director for a year+ before they advertised the job then hired her unanimously.) She's actually the person who took MY job at the college when I left there in 1980, so it would somehow be fitting if I got HER job, don't you think? I'v got the qualifications (and then some) and know half the staff already, so I'm hoping there are not a whole lot of folks applying and I'll (please God) get an interview. The pay is half again as much as my old job and $11K MORE than the VA position so keep your fingers crossed for me.

[brink]

I was looking for this thread last night and didn't have time to keep looking. Great news on the new possibility! The job I have waited until the end of the quarter to hire me. If they had told me what they were doing I wouldn't have taken the dealership one for a month. I still feel guilty about leaving there. But I like this one.
I have my fingers crossed for you, the college one sounds more fun though. The VA needs good people but they have weird rules in the government.
Keep us posted!
Deb

[brink]

Violet I'm still waiting for the story of the raceway mouse.

[violet Blue Horse]

Personally I think it's a rat and not a mouse.

When I was brand new to the job the boss was having trouble playing a digital clip they sent him that had to open the Raceway spot he had to record that day. This is a man who types memos on a typewriter rather than a computer.

The clip's name was Raceway, and I had no idea what it was, other than he had to have it to record the spot and the spot had to be done and emailed that day. At the time I knew next to nothing about Cool Edit Pro or digital editing. My how time flies. Anyway, I futzed around for about thirty minutes and with some help from a former employee on the phone, I finally figured out the damn thing had to be coverted to a wav to use it in the mixdown. After thirty minutes of total confusion I finally got the damn thing to play and heard it for the first time. I turned to the boss and said "What the hell is that." At which point I was informed that it was the "LEGENDARY" Raceway Mouse. I said "I SWEATED FOR A HALF HOUR FOR A DAMN MOUSE?" "Legendary Mouse" he says.

Why a mouse I have no clue to this day. What a mouse has to do with drag racing I have no clue. But then I don't understand most things that have to do with drag racing.

But on the bright side, my three month probationary period is up and I got a raise. Wooohooooooooo.


quote:Originally posted by brink:
Violet I'm still waiting for the story of the raceway mouse.

[TheWatchman]

quote:Originally posted by violet Blue Horse:


Why a mouse I have no clue to this day. What a mouse has to do with drag racing I have no clue.




The Chevy 350 engine is commonly referred to as the mouse and the Chevy 454 engine is called the rat.

[violet Blue Horse]

Thank you. That's clear as mud. Do they commonly use the 350 to build drag racers?

quote:Originally posted by TheWatchman:
The Chevy 350 engine is commonly referred to as the mouse and the Chevy 454 engine is called the rat.

[DMD3]

While we're on the subject, once I save up enough money I'm going to get a '454' put in my S10. Right now it has a 4.3. It beats the heck out of a little wimpy V4.

[TheWatchman]

Very very common. They are cheap to build and parts are readily available by the gazillions. Excellent motor.

[violet Blue Horse]

Ahhhhhhhhh . . . still hate the mouse . . .

quote:Originally posted by TheWatchman:
Very very common. They are cheap to build and parts are readily available by the gazillions. Excellent motor.

[brink]

Any news yet Annie?

[Auburn Annie]

Nada, zip, zilch, bupkis - in other words, not a peep. Gonna be a long summer.

[Auburn Annie]

Heard yesterday - did NOT get the VA job - bummer. On the other hand it's not clear that *anybody* got it. The VAMC website still lists the librarian as the lady who retired last December, and the Upstate library no longer lists anyone as the VA librarian affiliated with their staff. As a matter of fact there's no mention at all of the VA affiliation. The VA may have decided to simply discontinue the position since there are 7 reference librarians at Upstate already covering VA staff together with the (former) VA librarian position.

Still hoping for an interview at the community college for the Tech Services job.

[violet Blue Horse]

I'm sorry Annie. If there is any justice in the world, the next job you want will be the one you get. http://www.corfid.com/ubb/smile.gif

[brink]

So sorry Annie, hang in there, maybe the College job will come through. Keeping my fingers crossed and hoping for you.

[gwen snyder]

there are lots of changes going on in the VA right now Annie. Sorry, but, the good news is you are probably too educated for it anyway. However, that doesn't put food in the tummy. The tech rep position sounds pretty good. Are you familiar with any FEMA programs? They seem to be growing and with your education it seems like a possibility???

[Auburn Annie]

Well, my suspicions were confirmed. I asked an inside source who told me the VA did a lateral transfer, hiring one of the reference librarians from the Upstate Medical Library who was already doing the job in the interim. Dang, I wish if they were going to give priority to internal applicants they'd at least SAY so. Grumble, grumble, grumble....

[brink]

I would think the least they could do it to tell the applicants that is what they did. And why do they advertise to outside people when this is probably what they planned anyway. Sorry Annie.

[gwen snyder]

well the justice is they are not as good as you would have been Annie.

[Auburn Annie]

Well I heard today about the college job - I didn't get it. I am so freakin' depressed, as my 15 year old would say. They never interviewed anyone, apparently. The search committee reviewed resumes and then selected somebody with better qualifications for that specific job. Never mind I could do it blindfolded with one hand tied behind my back (I need one free for data entry.) My credentials were "impressive" but ...
If that's supposed to be news to me, it ain't. And if it's supposed to be some sort of comfort - ditto. All I want to hear is "you're hired" or, if they're feeling voluble "you've got the job - when can you start?" Sorry to go off on you guys but it's been two long years and I'm tired of hearing we like your work, but. I startled the poor dog by bursting into tears, something I haven't done in a long time. I don't think even 24 hour Gord will help this time. Thanks for letting me vent.

[LSH]

I'm sorry Annie, the job market pretty much sucks (as my 19 yr old would say) here too. Which is why I stay in a job I hate with every fiber of my being.
Vent all you need to. I wish there was something we could do for you (more than just talk). Please, through all of this, remember who you are inside. The people who turned you down don't know squat! They're missing out...

All my best wishes,prayers and thoughts for you.

[brink]

Aw Annie, that really does suck. I know it is little consolation but I didn't think I was ever going to find anything, and here in the middle of nowhereville I got a job I really like (even though it is getting high stress). Something will come up for you, I'm sure. You are probably sitting there flipping me off for trying to be little mary sunshine (that's okay too it relives stress). But I feel really awful for you and I remember how it felt when they would say I wasn't "THE CHOSEN ONE" or they wouldn't call at all. Like I didn't exsist. It is horrible and Bush keeps saying how great the economy is. I wish I had something to say that would help. A little Gord, and strawberry daquri(sp? I just drink it I don't care how it's spelled) and a good cry will help some. I did go to job service and would have qualified for retraining if I hadn't gotten the car dealership job.
I'm really sorry Annie, all of us were really pulling for you. You can vent on us all you want. Most of us have been there too.
Brink

[violet Blue Horse]

I'm sorry Annie. I've had some of my worst crying jags sitting on the kitchen floor with my arms wrapped around the dog if that makes you feel any better http://www.corfid.com/ubb/biggrin.gif.

[TheWatchman]

I went through the same thing several years ago. Couldn't get any kind of job much less a career one. I heard the same things, overqualified, all the buts.

I got so sick of getting little "Dear John" letters in the mail stating the "but we'll keep your resume on file if a job opens that match your qualifications".

The only thing that made me feel better was sending along teh following photo of the man with a little message of my own..."Thanks for keeping my resume on file for another year just in case something opens up. Stick this in my file while your at it!"
http://www.iroc-zpostforum.com/cashfinger.jpg

Hang in there Annie. It aint easy but something will turn up when you least expect it. I wonder if you could start your own business??

[TheWatchman]

quote:Originally posted by violet Blue Horse:
I'm sorry Annie. I've had some of my worst crying jags sitting on the kitchen floor with my arms wrapped around the dog if that makes you feel any better http://www.corfid.com/ubb/biggrin.gif.



Not trying to be a smart ass but what is a crying jag? Maybe I might need one...

[Borderstone]

My good friend Lisa rold me it's when things are going so badly that you just sit yourself down and let all the sadbess out of yourself by crying until you can't anymore.

I find it hard to believe this would only apply to women though. C'mon,men have tear ducts and emotions too! No matter how much we may deny them. http://www.corfid.com/ubb/wink.gif

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"A knight of the road,going back to a place where he might get warm." ;) - Borderstone

[Auburn Annie]

Thanks, guys, feeling better today. I had lunch with a friend yesterday (from where I used to work) and have had time to calm down. My husband says it's time to shift gears - though I feel like my gears are stripped at the moment.

I did fire off an email to the general manager of our local Bass Pro sporting goods store because there's talk of adding a museum to the store and he replied (the same day!) saying while the plans haven't been finalized and they have a couple of candidates, I should stop by and fill out an application for curator. Who knows? Maybe I'll be presiding over stuffed moose and fish exhibits. There's also a part-time public library job (civil service) I'm applying for, and my CPA brother-in-law who is starting his own office has a secretary who's on the fence about working with him, so my husband told him I'm available. Heck, I can answer phones and enter data with the best of 'em.

[Cue "Somewhere Out There"] there's a job with my name on it and I *will* find it.

[Borderstone]

Annie,since the other guys aren't awake right now,I'll say,you're welcome on their behalf. http://www.corfid.com/ubb/smile.gif You got message 3001 by the way,after my being 3000 with my new topic. http://www.corfid.com/ubb/wink.gif
Off to bed with me! G'night! http://www.corfid.com/ubb/cool.gif

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"A knight of the road,going back to a place where he might get warm." ;) - Borderstone

[brink]

Anything yet Annie?
I am starting on line classes, A&P and medical terminology first. Then to the English comp, math class and whatever other prerequsite I need. Then starting the Respiratory Therapist classes. Most I can do online, but 1,000 hours of clinicals at the end are going to do me in. I thought about going back to school when I turned 40. I would be waaaaaay done by now if I had just done it! I'll figure out a way to do the clinicals when (and if) the time comes.
It is quite depressing being unemployed (experience talking). I hope you find something - even if you are dusting that moosehead in between tours. Good luck.

[Auburn Annie]

Nothing yet. I'm putting in an application on Monday for a part-time librarian job at the local public library (civil service - doesn't say how many hours.) The museum hasn't even been built yet; it'll cover most of the upper floor of our local mall, where there used to be a roller-skating rink, so I don't expect to hear on that for a while.

[gwen snyder]

Annie, keep your chin up girlie. There have been worse times in your life and be positive about the fact that you have a wonderful support system with your family (including the dog!). The thing to remember is that the next job you jump into will be fire for your furnace cause girl you seem like a live wire who knows which direction she is headed. So, keep the chin up, and go through them lyrics of the house you live in kitty kat cause there are others way worse off than you... something is headed your way, remain positive. Don't let them get you down, you have so much to offer and they are the losers who didn't see it. Here at Corfid land we all see your potential. Keep on keepin on.
you're great!
GSS

[Auburn Annie]

Thank you, Gwen, and everybody else. I feel like I have virtual cheerleaders rooting me on. You guys are the best.

[enigma]

Annie,
Why don't you try temp work? It's a great way to get your foot in the door to show companies what you can do. I know many people who have gone in as temps, some long term and some short term and have gotten hired by the company. There's also the possibility that you may like the flexibility that comes with the situation, you get to pick and choose what you want to do and when you want to do it.

[Auburn Annie]

Update! Update!

There was a tiny ad in the Syracuse paper this past Sunday for a company looking for researchers and writers with backgrounds in library science, health science, math or statistics, full- or part-time. No other info except the address. So I mailed out a quick resume on Monday morning.

I left for lunch with a friend and came home to a message on the board that I'd gotten a call from them and to please call back. We played phone tag for a while (and our main phone is on the repair list because of the static - along with 32,000 other customers, it turns out) but I finally heard back from Laurie who expressed an interest in my resume, and asked when could we meet?

So keep your fingers crossed for me next Wednesday morning (11/3). We're going to discuss what she has available and what I might be interested in. She was concerned about me commuting from Auburn in the winter but I told her I can either bus it, hitch a ride with a sister who goes by the place every day, or telecommute. Personally I'd love to work mostly from home. I don't need an office to write, or to do a lot of research. She can ask my sister's attorney - I've been acting as a de facto paralegal for the last few months doing research. She also asked if I do a lot of emailing. I laughed, told her I have a half dozen email accounts, and she seemed relieved to hear it.

I have no clue what they're offering re salary, but even part-time would help at this point. I'm off to investigate the going rate for medical/technical writers.

[BILLW]

quote:Originally posted by Auburn Annie:
Update! Update!
I have no clue what they're offering re salary, but even part-time would help at this point. I'm off to investigate the going rate for medical/technical writers.

AA,
Good luck and remember a foot in the door often gives us a chance to display our real worth. But you know that. Best Wishes.
Bill http://www.corfid.com/ubb/smile.gif

[LSH]

YAY! I bet it feels great just to have someone express an interest and some appreciation for how capable you are.
I will definitely keep my fingers crossed for you.

[brink]

http://www.corfid.com/ubb/biggrin.gif http://www.corfid.com/ubb/biggrin.gif http://www.corfid.com/ubb/biggrin.gif. I hope this works out for you. Just the fact that they called and kept playing tag is a good sign.and WOW maybe you will be able to work from home some or all of the time. Good Luck Annie, I will keep the good thoughts flowing for you. Let us know ASAP what happens. I wrote it on my daytimer and will keep the fingers crossed.

[Auburn Annie]

It turns out the lady I spoke with is the senior VP of the company - she sent me directions to the building, and the email had her title and phone numbers. Of course, it *could* be a two person company <g>.

[miketouhy]

quote:Originally posted by TheWatchman:
I went through the same thing several years ago. Couldn't get any kind of job much less a career one. I heard the same things, overqualified, all the buts.

I got so sick of getting little "Dear John" letters in the mail stating the "but we'll keep your resume on file if a job opens that match your qualifications".

The only thing that made me feel better was sending along teh following photo of the man with a little message of my own..."Thanks for keeping my resume on file for another year just in case something opens up. Stick this in my file while your at it!"
http://www.iroc-zpostforum.com/cashfinger.jpg

Hang in there Annie. It aint easy but something will turn up when you least expect it. I wonder if you could start your own business??
what's the reason for the middle finger?

[Auburn Annie]

Utter frustration

[violet Blue Horse]

Congratulations on the opportunity Annie! It sounds like you're excited by the job too. Keep us posted. Fingers crossed.

quote:Originally posted by Auburn Annie:
It turns out the lady I spoke with is the senior VP of the company - she sent me directions to the building, and the email had her title and phone numbers. Of course, it *could* be a two person company <g>.

[Auburn Annie]

Well, I WAS excited by the job, given the minimal information in the ad, but I have to say I got a sort of hinky feeling at the interview. Hard to describe.

The place isn't hard to find, about a 15 minute walk from the center of downtown Syracuse. And sure enough there was a big trolley painted on the front.

I was early, which threw them a bit, I think. In our family, tardiness is up there with grand theft auto and murder one. I met with the VP I had spoken with earlier. She seemed pleasant enough but when she was telling me about the business - a boutique advertising company with about a half dozen pharmaceutical companies for regular clients - she faltered a moment, looking for the right word, which I helpfully supplied. I got an immediate "please don't interrupt me while I'm speaking" reprimand. Maybe she was afraid her train of thought would jump the tracks, I don't know. I was taken aback a bit but figured, okay, I'll limit my 'remarks' to "uh huh" and "hmm".

They are basically looking for researchers to provide in depth analysis and literature for their sales people to put before hospital boards in order to convince them to add the product to the formulary. Also to be able to write brochures aimed at different users groups (doctors, the FDA, nurses, consumers), all very time-sensitive (i.e. perpetual crisis mode), and all requiring absolute precision, virtually error-free. High stress, high pressure, and an unimpressive salary (no more than what I was making 2 years ago at a much less stressful - and local - job). Plus there is occasional travel to Boston, Philadelphia, New York and a few other places. I hate travel. I used to get car-sick backing out of the driveway.

What was a little unnerving was the absence of anybody else around, except for an elderly gentleman who buzzed me in the locked doors. She explained they leased the second floor, sharing the building with another company. Given the workload there ought to have been dozens, if not scores of people around but unless it's unusually well sound-proofed, I never heard a thing. She did say they have a very quiet work area, for concentration. No kidding.

They're definitely in a hurry to hire (like next week) but I don't know if I'm their candidate. For the kind and amount of work required it doesn't pay all that well, especially taking into consideration transporation costs. She conceded some work could be done from home but because of the need to be around for meetings, team questions, last minute changes etc. I got the distinct impression telecommuting would be unlikely.

So as much as I need the work, I'm leaning toward "no" if offered, unless we can work out some sort of piece work, editing or something like that. Now if I can only convince my husband that my "gut" feeling is a good reason to turn it down.

[violet Blue Horse]

Go with the gut. They don't sound like your kind of company. Something better will come along. Okay, maybe not tomorrow, but it will.

quote:Originally posted by Auburn Annie:
So as much as I need the work, I'm leaning toward "no" if offered, unless we can work out some sort of piece work, editing or something like that. Now if I can only convince my husband that my "gut" feeling is a good reason to turn it down.

[Gaby]

Annie!
Violet’s right!
You’re obviously not happy with this setup.
Go with your gut feeling – it’s usually right.
If you really thought it was such a fantastic job you would have waited and posted that you had been offered the chance of a lifetime.
Obviously, you have to discuss this with your husband, but he knows you and should help you work this through. (If he disagrees, just thump him and tell him what you’re going to do.)

[djb]

I'm with the gang on this one too. My sixth sense says it isn't for you. I know it is hard being between jobs (I REALLY know), but this sounds a bit too unnerving. It's your choice of course, and I'll support you in whatever you do, but that's my two cents.

-- David

[LSH]

ok Annie, I know you want to work, but it sounds like Rod Serling runs the place. You just know there's some freaky thing just waiting to happen. eek! sounded YUCKY.
I'm with the gang on this one too.
You'll know when you find the right fit.
and I can't believe she reprimanded you... how full of herself she must be. RUDE RUDE RUDE. and that was just surface stuff. who knows what other strange and harmful psychosis lie just beneath her semi pleasant facade?
RUN!!

[brink]

I to vote for the NO THANKS answer. It sounds creepy and if yoou feel like this now can you imagine how you would feel getting up every day to go to the job. Pass on it there has got to be something else waiting for you.

[gwen snyder]

Annie, You know this has got to be some sort of sign... well, if they get back with you for a second interview add more comments than uh-huh and hmm. Follow your heart, listen carefully to it. There is no pefect anything here in this world, also, no "normal". You are far too bright to spend a lifetime in an insane asylum, find out if this is right for you and then if it's still odd, run like ****.

[stationmaster]

Hey Annie, I have worked with a lot of strange people in various jobs. It's not worth the hassle and stress you have to go through! Wait for something that suits your personality. You will thank yourself afterward. http://www.corfid.com/ubb/smile.gif

[Auburn Annie]

Well, it's been 9 days and I haven't heard aye, yes or no from SMPS so I take it as a no and a sign that my gut was right on this.

In other news, the local mall had a chocolate store opening (Gertrude Hawks - it's regional, based in Pennsylvania) so I applied and was offered a key supervisor position. I turned it down, however, regretfully, because though the manager is a lovely woman and selling chocolates is not a bad gig, after taxes and transportation I'd be working for about $2.50 an hour. And I'm just not cut out for retail. And it was mostly nights, so my husband would be eating subs with the dog and maybe our daughter from time to time. Working two different shifts (including weekends) I'd hardly see him.

I feel badly putting the financial burden on him, but he's such a sweetie. He told me if I didn't feel right about it, don't try and stick it out and be miserable for weeks or months. He said he didn't mind because we're doing okay and it's payback, says he. Payback? I asked. And he reminded me that when he first moved here from Canada he didn't have a job, then got one he absolutely hated until he finally got the one he has now, and I supported us both at the time (on about $12000 as I recall.) So it was his turn to support us. Damn, I've felt weepy all day and that just did it. I'm having trouble seeing the keys as I type. I just gotta win a lotto for him. Something.

And in another of the good news/bad news scenarios, I got my Civil Service score for a part-time public library job. I got 100, rank 1, position 2 (meaning there's only one person ahead of me.) That's the good news. The bad news is the one opening is already filled with an incumbent, who had to take the test to keep the job. So unless she scored in 4th place, or drops dead, there's no job. But the list, and my place on it, is good for two years.

So the search goes on. Soemwhere there's a library/writing/research job with my name on it (though I'd settle for a nice slice of Mega Millions or a casino jackpot <g> ).

[LSH]

hey girl,
glad to hear things went well with the husband. he does sound like a great guy. Payback. he has a long memory too. http://www.corfid.com/ubb/smile.gif

on the chocolate front, if I worked there, I'd OD on chocolate. probably a blessing in disguise that you had to turn it down...

[Sheryl Klein]

Hi Annie,

I'm sort of new to this site, but, I've read lots of everyone's posts and feel a kind of kinship with all of you. I feel for you, but, like everyone else says, WAIT for the right job. We all have horror stories of taking that job we KNEW was wrong and it turned out to make us miserable. I took the wrong job rather than asking my dad for the rent money and ended up crying in the bathroom every lunch hour. I ended up with an ovarian cyst after 9 months and had to have an operation. I'm sure my stress level helped that come about. So, thank God you have someone to support you -- as well as your friends here to prop you up emotionally!! Take care and take heart!!

Sheryl

[Cathy]

quote:Originally posted by Auburn Annie:
Well, it's been 9 days and I haven't heard aye, yes or no from SMPS so I take it as a no and a sign that my gut was right on this.

In other news, the local mall had a chocolate store opening (Gertrude Hawks - it's regional, based in Pennsylvania) so I applied and was offered a key supervisor position. I turned it down, however, regretfully, because though the manager is a lovely woman and selling chocolates is not a bad gig, after taxes and transportation I'd be working for about $2.50 an hour. And I'm just not cut out for retail.

<snip>

Oh Annie, Annie, Annie.... you need a little bit of training in consumer marketing and consumption. All you have to do is get Char to notice this and convince her to become a valued client. Now, if you're workingon commission, you'll be rollin' in the dough in no time. Believe me on this one!

Cathy http://www.cathycowette.com

[Auburn Annie]

LOL - no commissions, sorry. And I'm already getting rolypoly. Khakis and a white shirt are NOT a good look for me, either. Thanks for the support - feeling better.

[violet Blue Horse]

But, but but, we're talking CHOCOLATE! I mean, come on, try it for a few months, get that employee discount, send us all chocolate for Christmas and then quit. Annie, come on, we're talking CHOCOLATE!

Alright, I suppose I understand, but still . . . a job with chocolate . . .


quote:Originally posted by Auburn Annie:

In other news, the local mall had a chocolate store opening (Gertrude Hawks - it's regional, based in Pennsylvania) so I applied and was offered a key supervisor position. I turned it down, however, regretfully, because though the manager is a lovely woman and selling chocolates is not a bad gig, after taxes and transportation I'd be working for about $2.50 an hour.

[brink]

YUM, chocolate breakfast, lunch and dinner!

[Auburn Annie]

Having worked eons ago in a restaurant I can tell you that familiarity breeds indifference - too much of a good thing kills any interest in it for a long time. It was AGES before I even thought of having a salad after making them for 7 years.

Even chocolate - really!

[Cathy]

quote:Originally posted by Auburn Annie:
Having worked eons ago in a restaurant I can tell you that familiarity breeds indifference - too much of a good thing kills any interest in it for a long time. It was AGES before I even thought of having a salad after making them for 7 years.

Even chocolate - really!

I suppose that's true to some extent, except for anything Lightfoot.

Cathy http://www.cathycowette.com

[Sheryl Klein]

How true, how true!!

Sheryl

[brink]

okay I have been sitting here eating double dipped choc. covered peanuts. Maybe sometimes it is a little too much. I wish though I could eat enough so I never craved it again.

[LSH]

I wish I had some chocolate right now. mmmm

[TheWatchman]

The middle finger was for Johnny's record label at the time.

[gwen snyder]

annie, just hold on kiddo. the perfect job for you is just around the corner. you'll see. until then you are blessed, enjoy your blessings!
have you thought of starting your own business?

[violet Blue Horse]

Yeah, what she said. A bag of Double Chocolate Chunk cookes from Pepperidge Farms got me through last week. Had this hedious mess of a legal headache on my desk all week, a dead car, bronchitis, a cold, problems with the home computer and a cranky boss on heavy medication. Without chocolate I might not have made it.

Still, I wish I didn't crave the stuff. It's an addiction and there is no cure.

quote:Originally posted by brink:
okay I have been sitting here eating double dipped choc. covered peanuts. Maybe sometimes it is a little too much. I wish though I could eat enough so I never craved it again.

[Auburn Annie]

AND the saga continues [cue up "Another One Bites the Dust"]

This job was a part-time research aide in the county historian's office (genealogy, records searching etc.) It was only 16.5 hours a week, though the pay was a little over $10/hour - no vacation, no benefits. Still, it would have given me walking around money, stanched the outflow from my savings and been a current position on my resume.

I interviewed yesterday, with the county historian, one other employee in the office, the director of real property (the department falls under the county clerk) and one other - a tax map tech who scans documents into the county websites, I think. *I* thought it went well; they were looking for someone with library skills to catalog the collection, somebody familiar with genealogy (even though they have a genealogist on staff) etc.

The one good thing was she DID say she'd let all the candidates know their decision in a vey short time. I interviewed at 9 am and got the call at 6 pm. At least I wasn't kept hanging, but I was hoping for "yes", not "we've hired another candidate but we did enjoy speaking with you." Grrrrr.

This is getting discouraging, folks. Now I've got to go out and shovel the blankety blank driveway for the third time.

[charlene]

I feel for ya - I too am in a quandary. After 20+ years at home I found myself looking for work and becoming a single mum all at once! I do daycare for 3 toddlers, i'm pushing 50 (quite quickly!) and can't get out to upgrade any job skills...cuz I certainly am guaranteed to never get a job with NO computer programme skills at all. It's a big dilemma and I sure hope you get your dream job soon!
then it might just be my turn!
lol
Char
keep on going for it!

[Auburn Annie]

Well, as it happens I had lunch this afternoon with a friend from the hospital who will be 65 come this April. She's looking to retire in November as medical staff coordinator. Her job involves all the credentialing for new staff appointments, tracking physician privileges, making sure they have insurance coverage, continuing education credits, a DEA license, etc. We were discussing how I'm already familiar with medical terminology, I already know most of the doctors on staff (and they know me), I'm computer literate and know how to update databases, am very organized etc. The upshot is she's going to float the idea of me replacing her in the fall when she retires. After all, I'm a known quantity and burned no bridges when I left, so I'm on good terms with administration and always got along with the current Medical Director who supervises the position. I could 'shadow' her for a few months to get the routine down. I'm not holding my breath, given the way things have gone in the past, but who knows? Weirder things have happened.

[Sheryl Klein]

Good luck, Annie. I'm pulling for you!

[brink]

Aww, Annie I hope it goes your way, finally! Don't dispair though I have had this job for nearly a year and am totally burned out, you may have company again! Maybe this will be the one for you. you know you can use all of us as references and we will tell your possible employers how great you are doing for us with your research! I'd give you a 10. Here's hoping for you with my fingers crossed.

[Harmony]

are yall talking about getting jobs? Moms been pressuring me a little, but I odn't think I need a job. I'm not old enough. i'm only 17.

[Janice]

quote:Originally posted by Harmony:
are yall talking about getting jobs? Moms been pressuring me a little, but I odn't think I need a job. I'm not old enough. i'm only 17.

I'm not saying you should or shouldn't get a job, that's between you and your parents, but you definitely ARE old enough to have some responsibility and earn your own spending money.

[superiorsings1]

Annie, I'm glad I read this (by the way are you from Auburn NY? I went to Skaneateles last year because I loved the name and the place is gorgeous!!)
Anyway, I work at about 9 cleaning jobs and consider myself self-employed. No one takes taxes out and I have no insurance, but I pay my taxes quarterly. I was offered a job interview for the state of NH mental hospital in housekeeping and I have never worked full time, I'm afraid I would really hate this but I would get the benefits. The interview didn't take place yet because of a slowdown in getting the application to the dept. (their problem, it has to be approved). I would like to go with my gut but what if I am turning down something that I may need later?
I love my schedule as it is but hate the dealing with taxes and if I break a leg I could be stuck with a wicked expense.
So I could wait and see what else is out there or take this if it comes. Hope yours works out. I have only done cleaning but feel that I could do something in a library or office. (Can't remember a face, but I never forget a name. 'cause I can spell Skaneateles!)

[Auburn Annie]

Yep, Skaneateles is our neighbor, about 5 miles to the east of us. Lovely but (comparatively speaking) expensive. Lots of mansions along the lake. Did you eat at Rosalie's Cucina? Rosalie Romano was our next door neighbor for a few years, a lovely woman - my daughter (then about 5) used to invite herself over for coffee and dessert; I can still hear Rosalie laughing in the background when Rachel would call me. Her brother Phil built the restaurant for her - he's in the business, having founded Fuddrucker's and Romano's Macaroni Grill among others. Unfortunately she died of cancer not long after the place opened. But the food is great. And they have a new spa next door, Mirbeau Inn, which has won 4 diamond rating.

As for the job, I'm the last to tell anybody what to do. In my case my husband is working full-time and carries the family insurance so that's one worry I don't have. I don't know how old you are, how close to retirement or not. If you're still young, unencumbered (no family) it's easier to pick up and move. There's something to be said for paid vacation, sick leave and insurance. On the other hand if health is good and you like setting your own schedule - and the work is steady, and you set money aside for the lean times - you might want to stick with it for a while. If you decide to take the state job (if offered) you can always sock away the cash for the day you say "shove it" and walk back to being an independent contractor. Is there a local CPA who could handle your quarterly payments etc.? Check with the local office of the Small Business Administration for suggestions.

Also, New Hampshire has a program for the self-employed to buy health insurance.

"The approach different states take to the issue of how to treat health insurance for the self-employed varies. In New Hampshire, the self employed are allowed to purchase a small group health insurance policy even if there are no other employees.

Being a self-employed individual buying New Hampshire health insurance can be quite costly. However, there is relief from this cost through an itemized tax deduction. A percentage of your annual New Hampshire health insurance premiums can be deducted from taxes if you are self-employed and buying your own health insurance."

See http://www.healthinsuranceindepth.com/group-insurance-New-Hampshire.html
for more, and a CPA for tax advice.


[This message has been edited by Auburn Annie (edited February 20, 2005).]

[superiorsings1]

Thanks for your help Annie. I have been sticking it out for over 15 years but I'm 45, still single and renting an apt. so I can't afford a lot of things. I do sock tax money away and am very frugal but figure I've been doing this long enough and would like to have a plan just in case and also for retirement.
So I'm leaning toward taking that job if offered and "know what I'm doing it for" as GL says in House You Live In...
Now as for good old "Skannie", I couldn't afford to stay there so I spent an afternoon there with friends, and stayed in Marathon.
I ate at the Bluewater Grill and just kept staring at the lake. You fortunate people who live near it are blessed. SO pretty!!
Didn't look like there was any public swimming. I went in Oct. and put my fingers in the finger lake. And I got my t-shirt I always wanted 'cause I like the name Skaneateles. We just stayed on Genesee St. the main drag, and shopped because it was raining out. That water is amazingly clear.
I grew up in VT on a lake called Memphremagog and there's a brick walkway along the lake.
They should put one of those in Skan. so people can walk along the water, but there are a couple nice parks and the gazebo.
We loved it. Fortunately it isn't really that far from me either (Concord NH)

[Auburn Annie]

Yeah, the Blue Water Grill is neat - you probably didn't eat outside in October, though. Danny Riordan (1st cousin once removed) owns that restaurant as well as Kabuki (Japanese cuisine) - both as a partner with Bill Eberhardt, who owns the Sherwood Inn on Genesee Street, almost across the street from the gazebo. In the summer there are also lake cruises. Danny's father Ray owned a small place, The Curtin Hotel, in Auburn in the 40s, then a bar and banquet/restaurant (Riordans) which moved from Market Street to Genesee Street in Auburn taking over what had been the Hofbrau Restaurant and is now Daut's - under different ownership now since Kabuki and two Blue Water Grills - the other in Baldwinsville - keep Danny and his brothers busy. One thing that never ceases to amaze my husband is the number of eating places here.

[superiorsings1]

Aaa! This is hysterical, you know all these people in my favorite adopted hometown.
It reminded me of Brattleboro VT and places in Maine. There must be a ton of lake-effect snow there by now and I think of that region whenever the weather channel mentions snow in NY. Saw a travelogue film about the Erie Canal and the barge they were using was from Mid-Lakes Navigation, they even gave us their calling card so you could call about canal cruises. Someday! And across the stern of the barge said "Skaneateles". I could hear people in the auditorium trying to say that.
It was great.
Best wishes on your job hunt, Annie, I must have gone right in your backyard last fall.

"Mountains are cool, but lakes rule!!"

[Auburn Annie]

Yes, you were. They have a lot of touristy features year-round, though most of the tourist crowd comes for the summer months. A favorite "off-season" treat is the Dickens Christmas where they have people in full Victorian dress and character roaming the streets and shops of the village, as described below:

"Step back in time and enjoy the holidays the old-fashioned way with Dickens' Christmas, as the merchants and Chamber of Commerce of Skaneateles give a gift to the public for their support throughout the year. Plan now and join the village of Skaneateles in the Finger Lakes of Upstate New York, where President and Mrs. Clinton vacationed, for 10 magical days of a Victorian Christmas.

The celebration begins the day after Thanksgiving and runs every Saturday and Sunday through December 19th From noon to 4 p.m. on each of those days plus a special appearance on Christmas Eve from noon-3 pm. Charles Dickens and his cast of characters directed by Jim Greene of Scarlett Rat Entertainment, will interact with residents and visitors in the streets, stores and restaurants. There will also be Christmas carol sing-alongs at 2 p.m. at the Masonic Temple at 13 E. Genesee St, free carriage rides around the lakeside village, free roasted chestnuts and hot chocolate, and "storytime" with Mother Goose. Children can even visit with Father Christmas each weekend day from noon to 2 p.m. He will have special treats for the good children."

[superiorsings1]

Yes, I have read about that and seen the pictures on the many times I've been to skaneateles.com. I'd rather be there in the summer and wish I could jump in the lake but I hear it's cold. Well there are always virtual trips via the Internet. Still, nothing like being there! Wave at the lake for me! http://www.corfid.com/ubb/smile.gif

[catmanron]

Hi Annie,

I know that as a trained Professional with many years experience in your field, you are keen to continue in the area you feel comfortable. But the truth is that you have developed many research skills that would be marketable in many fields.

For example you have the best skill of anyone I know in finding information on the Internet ( I do know lots of people !!!!.. lol ). ( none of us are safe.. from Annie )

My suggestion is that you use these skills to help people to find things, an area where this can be really useful is in the research of Family Trees. Many people, world wide, are now trying to find their roots, and working to produce Family Trees. Most of this information is hidden on the Internet, just about everything. Also things like War Service Records, many families have pictures of their Parents, Grand Parents on the Wall, and would love to attack service records and other information to the pictures. Most ex Servicemen never spoke to their families about their experiences.

Annie, create a web page and tell people you can research all of this information for them. I know you can do it, and I know people want this information, all we have to do is put you together. You don’t need a stuffy old library to ply your skills, do it on the Computer.

All the best Annie, don’t let your skills waste.

( I know all of this is none of my Business, but maybe something I’ve said will give you an idea, and we’re all friends and supporters )

Keep Smiling.. Ron.